In my dreams I was a cool, daring girl who said no to the teacher and went on wild and exciting adventures. I vowed to myself that when I grew up, when I could escape, I would be that girl.
I wanted to disobey the rules but I just couldn’t. I don’t even know why? Was I worried that all of a sudden someone would punish me? Yes, I guess I was. People who follow rules are somehow praised by parents and teachers and all the people who influence our early life. All I wanted was for people to praise me and tell me that I was a good girl. Good Girl, Nice Girl. Follow all the rules and use perfect punctuation.
And so I grew into a Nice Girl. I am sort of interesting and quirky, but never enough to tip the boat. I guess I am afraid I might fall out into that big mass of water…the unknown. The unwritten. I want to be out there, swimming in the ocean, but every time I try, I end up clinging to the boat, afraid that once I jump in, I won’t be able to swim.
Maybe the water will be so beautiful, I may never need the boat again……Maybe punctuation doesn’t matter as much. As I thought. It did.
Hi Shireen! So excited to read more from you on your new blog – congrats! I started blogging myself last year – pop by http://www.thepolkadotpalace.wordpress.com if you want to check out out sometime!
Hugs to the family from us – we miss you guys!
Trisha
Thanks Trisha! I am really trying to give writing a real go! Yikes! Thanks for being my very first comment. Miss you! Hugs to you and your family! xx
I think i can relate to this… the desire to be the ‘good one’ has always driven me even till date… unfortunately, in the process, i have lost too many dreams, possibilities and ambitions… so now i am trying to figure out a mid way somewhere… not leaving the boat just yet, but swimming along it in the unknown… all the best on your quest..
i know! but let’s hope that there are still dreams and possibilites to come….thanks so much for your comment x
Comment is the least i can do… you sharing it all helps so many of us heal…
I always like to read your writing Shireen, I look forward to this writing ride!
Thanks Tanya! Thanks for stopping by too! Hope you are well xx